All’s Fair in Love and Friendship

Honestly, I can’t believe how people can talk trash behind other people’s backs specially if the people they’re talking about are those who are with them for a long time! How can someone put up a front and then turn around and say something else? Isn’t it a complete BS?

I mean, if you hate the girl’s guts tell her to her face and not to someone else who would conclude the wrong thing just because of what you said and in turn spread it around like wildfire while the person you are all talking about is blissfully unaware of what’s happening! Happily thinking that nothing is wrong with the people surrounding her. I wonder what they’d do if ever they’re in her place? Who do they think they are? Superficial women who… ugh! I will be taking the roots of my hair out.

And the sad thing is I don’t know how to tell the girl in question the things that I know.

Did that baffled you? Yes, I am aware of the situation, I know the issues, I know the story on both sides and I can’t take it that all I can do is just sit on the sidelines and give her cryptic messages while they’re talking about her. I guess I have to do something about this problem right away because I couldn’t have fun anymore…

Whenever I look at her, I feel like I want to say something, but how? I know she’ll get hurt. And when she does, I know she’ll tell her boyfriend who’ll get mad at those people. Then the person who told me what she knew would get mad at me as well because she made me promise that I would not intrude and someone would be mad at her too because she promised she wouldn’t say anything to me.

But I know that T has the right to know. I can’t stomach the fact that she’s in the middle of this mess and she doesn’t even know it! Decisions, decisions… I hate it. But I know I have no other choice.

4 People Joined the Discussion

  1. idril (10/05/2006 at 1:43 pm)

    i hope it’s not me.heheheh
    that’s hard.
    tsk..tsk..

    if, just if ever things like this
    happend or lam mona..
    tell me ok.
    i’ll do the same to you
    cause i dont like people talking
    behind my back. =)

    http://www.lostsoul.farkfaerytale.com
  2. jr (10/05/2006 at 4:49 pm)

    I think you should tell her.

  3. N. (10/08/2006 at 1:10 am)

    personally i dont think it’s in your place to tell her the whole thing.. but to let her know that certain people have a problem with her and that SHE should approach them on her own.

    because for all the shit talking that’s happened, it’s gone from one person to another, etc, etc and when it finally reaches the person that they’re shit talkig about, the story has changed and it’s all fucked up and in reality, you would be saving so much more time just going directly to that person.. i dont think that made sense. lol

    http://breaking-point.org
  4. vincent (10/21/2006 at 2:44 am)

    talk to her nlng.. make up with her.. sayang is the friendship..

    http://porkandvince.blogspot,com

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